Saturday, December 1, 2012

Our Referral Day!!!

Wednesday started out just like any other normal day at work. I was in the middle of a haircut when my phone rang. Picking it up I saw AWAA on my caller ID. My heart began beating so fast. I just stared at my phone for a few seconds trying to comprehend if this was really happening. Could this really be the call we've been waiting on for so long!? I answered. "Hi Courtney, this is America World and I have Ryan on the other line. "This is your referral call." OMG! I think I was completely in shock and totally caught off guard. I felt like I could hardly breathe and you guessed it...Ryan was trying not to cry on the other line. Our family coordinator, began telling us about our daughter and some other info about paperwork etc. She also told us she would immediately email us our daughters file. She was talking so fast, or maybe it was just me hardly being able to contain myself, that I cannot remember half of what she said. I just couldn't wait for the email with pictures! It just so happened that I had a break in the middle of my work day so Ryan & I immediately rushed home so we could open her file together. I thought Ryan would never get home! That was the longest 30 min. wait ever!  Words cannot describe the feeling I had when we opened that email and finally saw her sweet face. The face we have longed to see for so long. Our daughter whom we have prayed over for more than two years now. Nara is a beautiful three year old little girl with big brown eyes (just like the Barbee's).  She has an adorable smile and a petite frame. We have decided to name her Nara. I keep finding myself staring at her picture that we now have framed in our house. So what comes next? Well...we wait lol! It usually takes anywhere from 6-12 weeks for a family to be assigned a court date. We will then fly over to Ethiopia where we will meet Nara and appear in court before a judge to state that we will love and care for her. We are hoping this will happen soon but at the same time we know that you never can tell. We are very blessed to have a great agency who has been very helpful during this time of waiting. We have also heard wonderful things from other adoptive families about the transition home where Nara is now. This makes me rest much easier knowing that she is being well taken care of. On December 1st, 2011 Nara was brought to the orphanage. Because our acceptance papers arrived at AWAA yesterday they were able to tell Nara today, exactly one year later, that she now has a family on the way! This brings tears to my eyes as I write this because I know without a doubt that God has been at work throughout this entire process even on our darkest days. Back in August I prayed so hard that we would get a referral by Ryan's birthday. When we didn't I was very discouraged. When we looked through Nara's file this week we saw that her physical & medical assessment was done on Ryan's birthday August 10, 2012. We may not have gotten a referral that day but God was at work getting her one step closer to being a part of our family. This has been a long process with lots of ups and downs, good days and bad days but she is so worth the wait!!!! Nara, we are on our way!!!!


2 comments:

  1. I am so happy for you guys. I have been following you since I joined the Ethiopia to Charlotte group on Facebook. We received our referral for a 2 1/2 year old boy from Ethiopia on 10/09/2012. We are currently waiting on our court date. We received our sons court date, but since MOWA is here in the states meeting with some delegates they are assigning court dates differently. You used to get your court date assinged the same time your childs was. Now they are assinging your childs court date and then the adoptive parents receive theirs. This is a new process and only temporary. The first family at our agency that was done this way just received their court date 12 days after their childs court date and then had to be in Ethiopia in 3 days! Crazy right!!! I hope everything goes quickly and smoothly for you all.

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  2. Thank you! I hope everything goes quickly for you as well so you can get your sweet boy!!!!

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