Let me just start by saying that I've been meaning to blog for weeks but life is a bit different now and I'm finding it harder to find a spare minute for this sort of thing with a 3 year old. Ha just sayin ;) What a crazy & wonderful several weeks it has been. The first few weeks were very tough but we made it through. Not to say we won't have more hard days but I finally feel we are getting our grove back and Nara is progressing each day. Tomorrow will be exactly 10 weeks since we picked her up from the transition home. Looking back now at pictures of that day I cannot believe what a brave little girl she is. She looks so sad and unsure after we picked her up and she said her goodbyes. Her whole world was turned upside down. She left behind friends and all that was familiar. The first weeks home were a time of cocooning for us as we worked on building trust with her along with bonding and attachment. There were many nights were I just held her as she sobbed. Some nights I cried right along with her. Partly from exhaustion and partly from my heart breaking thinking about all that she has endured as such a young age. I can honestly say that the cocooning was tough but well worth it. I have seen such a transformation in little Nara! I take back anything I said about her being shy. I should've known I would eat those words! She is like a totally different kid from when we first met her. Now I see that it wasn't her true personality at all but just a scared little girl who had already had so many big changes in her life to only be three years old. We were her forth set of caregivers so how could she possibly believe that she could trust us or know how much we loved her and would never leave her.
Right after we picked her up from the Transition Home. She looks so sad.
Leaving Ethiopia
Her shirt reads...He Created The Whole World And Yet God Knows My Name....He sure does precious Nardos (Nara) Ryan Thomas.
She has the funniest personality and the sweetest giggle!!!! I love hearing her talk and I have been amazed at the english she has already picked up in just a few short weeks. Hearing her call me mommy for the first time...priceless. Watching her sneak into our bedroom on Saturday and Sunday mornings to "tickle monster" her daddy is the best! Love watching their relationship grow. One night as we were doing our bedtime routine she wanted her turn saying her prayers for the first time. She said lots of family members names and a "thank you Jesus...amen." Then started singing Kari Jobes' song, We Are The Light of the World. I was having a such a beautiful inspired moment and was thinking to myself, "this is why we adopted!" Just before I could get too emotional she rolled over and handed me a booger. In the mornings she loves to cuddle. I especially love my days off so that I can snuggle with her. Today in particular we were laying in her bed with her arms around me laughing when she voluntarily told me that my breath stinks. Not so sure I'm excited about ALL the english she has learned already!!! Cannot get over what a sweet and silly little girl she is.
Dancing before bedtime with her new bike helmet on
Playing dress up in mine and her Nonna's clothes.
Of course she has her typical three year old moments but it makes me smile to hear her laugh and watch her grow. Praying over her as God continues to heal her heart and shape her into all that He created her to be.
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